Word of The Day: Divine Guidance

divine-guidanceWord of The Day:  Divine Guidance


Divine – of, from, or like God or a god.

Guidance– advice or information aimed at resolving a problem or difficulty, especially as given by someone in authority; Spirit Guides, Angels, Higher Self, etc.

How do we get quiet enough to hear our Divine Guidance?  Yoga and meditation are one way.  I also have a daily writing practice that helps me sift through the dross in my mind.

Yet, there are many more ways that Spirit speaks to us.  Have you ever read a book, either fiction or nonfiction and a sentence jumps out and speaks to your soul at the right and perfect time.  I have received messages from Guidance via podcast, billboards and songs on the radio.  There are many ways the Divine can communicate with us.  All we need is willingness to open up and allow Spirit to shine through.

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Touched By An Angel

angel-embraceOne day, while practicing yoga I began to weep.  Yoga will often bring up emotions stored deep in the cells of the body.  I had been weeping on and off for the past few months.  This day was different.  This grief was coming from deep inside me.  It felt different from anything else I had experienced up til then.  I was told by my Soul that I was carrying the collective grief of my family in my body.  This time it was coming up to be healed.  The grief was so intense that I asked for help.  “Please help me!” I cried.  “I can not do this any longer!”

Asking for help was something I didn’t do any longer for I had given up on God.   I no longer talked to my angels or my spirit guides (unless I was giving a reading.)  I turned inward for my Guidance.  My Soul became my go to for any assistance I needed.  I still believed in angels and spirit guides but I didn’t want to talk to them anymore.  I wanted to keep my spiritual conversations internal.  I thought if I did that I could simplify my spiritual life.  I no longer wanted to be the woo-woo girl.

In doing this I let go of an enormous asset to my life.  That day on the mat I surrendered and asked for help.  I immediately felt a presence and arms embrace me.  I sense it was an angel but it doesn’t really matter.  It was comfort exactly when I needed it.  Since then my grief has lessened with each passing day.  I’ve been experiencing moments of peace and joy.  I’ve been asking my spirit helpers to assist me in little things as well as the bigger issues.  You see, these Helpers don’t interfere in our lives.  They can’t.  Yet, they are ready and excited to help as soon as we ask.

We are not alone.  We are never alone.  So, I encourage you to ask for help. Ask your friends, your family, your angels and your guides.  Asking for help isn’t weakness.  Asking for help is one of the most empowering things you can do.

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Free Yourself From Unhealthy Attachments


When I was in my twenties I met a man whom I felt deeply connected to.  He, unfortunately, did not have the same feelings for me.  My logic told me I needed to let go of the fantasy of a romantic relationship with him but I couldn’t seem to.  I became obsessed and I knew I needed help to free myself from this obsession.  I intuitively knew that traditional therapies would not help me.  I went to a psychic instead.

This wonderful woman taught me a technique called de-cording.  She used guided visualization to safely help me release the negative attachments to my obsession.  After our session I was not bothered with the fantasy of being with this man again.  It was during this process that my psychic gifts appeared.  They were buried deep within myself waiting for an opportunity to come forth.  De-cording is what awakened them.  Not everyone will have a dramatic response like I did.  You will feel lighter though and more able to get on with your life.

Each of us connects with one another on an energetic basis every time we interact.  When we smile at someone we meet on the street we energetically connect to that person.  Those connections are loving and do not affect us in a negative way.

When we are in more personal relationships those energetic connections go even deeper.  When the relationship has dissolved sometimes those connections stay intact and they start to drain us, especially when the other person becomes abusive.

These negative attachments can come in the guise of a family member who keeps taking and taking, a co-worker who keeps bothering you or even your own child.  It’s not about ending those relationships (unless that is what is in the highest good) but changing the dynamics of the relationship through the process of de-cording.

With the process of de-cording you can:

  • find relief from haunting thoughts
  • reclaim the energy that may be draining you
  • re-establish healthy energetic cords with those you are still involved with

Questions to ask yourself?

Have you ended a relationship, yet are still constantly thinking about the other person?

Has a telephone conversation with a friend left you exhausted?

Do you avoid a family member or work associate because they bring you “down”?

These are symptoms of negative energetic attachments (cords).

Something To Try:

Imagine you are in a light filled room surrounded by angels.  You are sitting in a chair.   In the chair opposite of you is the person you would like to de-cord from.  (You may want to experiment first with a relatively easy relationship.)  Begin by taking some deep breaths to fill your whole being with light.  Now imagine that there are cords coming from the other person to you.  Sometimes these cords look like rope, sometimes like weeds.  I’ve even see them look like appliance plug ins.  If you can not see the cords you may simply “know” that they are there and where they are in your body.   Invite your angels to come in to begin to dissolve the cords between you.  Imagine all the spaces where these cords once were as filled with light. 

Now image that there are cords coming from you to the person you are de-cording from.  Start calling those cords back like you would draw in a fishing line.  As the cords come back to you see them dissolve into light as well.  Double check your body for any more cords between you and your de-cording partner.  Check your back as well as your feet and the top of your head.  This is to be sure that there are no lingering negative connects between the two of you. 

What remains is the loving cord that connects all of us to one another.  So if you are de-cording from a child know that this love cord will remain intact.  Only those cords that no longer serve you will be dissolved. 

The final peace/piece of  this process is forgiveness.   Holding on to anger or resentment about the other person leaves an opening for the cords to become reattached.  Forgiveness takes time.  Personally, I have to first go through the emotions of anger before I can reach forgiveness.  Very often that anger is with myself for allowing the other person to victimize me.  Once I can forgive myself I find it easy to forgive the other person.  De-cording creates energetic space between you and the individual so you can take the time you need to reach forgiveness.

If you have any questions about this process or would like to schedule a de-cording session with Della hit the contact button at the top of this page.  Telephone sessions are available.  Feel free visit her website at www.innerpeacemovementstudio.com